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Robin H in VA
12-31-2009, 06:53 PM
As you know we just found out that ds has been diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome and I just received the results of his last tests, the ADOS and CELF-4.

The clinician's diagnosis after giving these tests are Asperger's Syndrome; Expressive Language Disorder.

That's just some background. Now to my question.

Ds asked me about a week or so ago, actually it was the day after Christmas, if he could have Santa to take all of the toys that he asks for next year to go to children who won't get anything. :hcry:

I told him that maybe next year when he asks Santa for what he would like, maybe he could ask for something extra or maybe he could begin a penny drive in the community (through our locally owed business and putting a jar our for customers extra chage in at the library or YMCA) and then take that money each week or month and put it a special account at our bank (after I look into it) and then at the end of say October go shopping and give all the toys to Toys for Tots or other local group. :clap: The he asked if he could do the same thing for our Humane Society. I told him that for that, maybe he could just ask the community to donate food and other items that the HS may need by a certain date in December so that he (I) could deliver them to the animals. Or he could also do a penny drive for that also.

Would something like this be too much for him considering his age (8). Do you think it would become to stressful?

He loves to help others and I want to give him every oportunity to do that and I think this would be a better way than to subject him to being in a room full of people serving Christmas dinner or something like that. And too, there are not too many volunteer situations around where we live for his age.

Chalane (FL)
12-31-2009, 07:51 PM
What a great kid!!:clap::D

What if you ask him to choose one and then see how collecting the $ goes. If it gets to be too stressful donate the $ raised then, instead of waiting until the end of the year.

Robin H in VA
01-01-2010, 11:57 AM
Thanks Chalane, he is a wonderful kid. :clap: :hcry:

I did suggest doing one or the other and he says that he just can't do that, he has/wants to do both.

I am going to come up with a list of things that he could purchase with any money saved and kinda create a goal for him.

He has been wanting to do something like this for a while, about the last 3 years or so, but I thought he was just too young. He would rather do stuff like this than to do his school work and that is a big problem. :)

carriejoy
01-12-2010, 02:19 AM
Robin, the Bible tells us two things: not to despise small beginnings and not to despise someone for their youth (my paraphrase!)

So even if he raises just a bit, that is still a beginning! And he isn't too young to raise SOMETHING.

I do encourage you though, to let him be part of the giving of his OWN resources (like future Christmas and such). I know we want to give our kids' things, but sometimes it's ok to follow their wishes and dreams and let them give those things away. ;)