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Leslie Nelsen
03-12-2007, 03:15 PM
and not the happy :hop: announcement kind. ;) (I do LOVE being able to post that kind.) This one is a little bittersweet to me. My oldest son is 14 today! :eek: When did he become a young man?!

I've written about him on my blog. I hope to add a picture of him to it later. One from today when he really is 14. He is such an amazing person. I find him to be interesting and so much fun to be around. I really enjoy him. I just don't want him to grow up? (I know that sounds silly, but hope you know what I mean. Its the leaving home part that I don't want to see, not necessarily the maturing part.)

http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/LeslieNelsen/

Yesterday I was with some friends and one mentioned Christopher's birthday. I commented that it was hard to see him getting older and knowing that it wouldn't be long before he was grown and gone. I couldn't help it and the tears started flowing. One friend commented that it would be alright as I would still have others at home. I replied that it wouldn't be the same. The dynamics of our family would be forever changed when he wasn't living here. The thought just makes me sad. :cry:

I realize that with all that is going on over here that a lot of things make me sad. I cry very easily and often. Even so, I know that milestone in the future will be a hard one for me.

Putting that aside, I am soooo very thankful for this precious child that made me a Mom! :hcry: What a lot of beautiful memories I have of our years together. I'm glad that God made me a "boy Mom" first. I've always said that after Rebecca came second. I grew up with only 1 sister and my Dad travelled a lot. We had a very girl-oriented home. (Didn't know how much practice I was going to get in the boy department either. :lol: )

Thanking God publicly for the wonderful, interesting and amazing son He gave to us 14 years ago! My life is much richer, fuller and happier as a result of having Christopher in it!

Thanks for sharing in my joy.

Jen in SC
03-12-2007, 03:19 PM
Happy Birthday to Christopher! :clap: What a beatiful tribute to your special son. :hcry:

Hollie in SC
03-12-2007, 03:23 PM
Happy Birthday to Christopher! I know what a special mom he has. :kiss: I am so thankful that he has grown up seeing what a Godly wife and mother looks like. :group: Praying that these years he has left at home will be very special ones. :hcry:

ETA: Read your blogs--thanks for the sweet tears. :hcry:

Donna L
03-12-2007, 03:43 PM
:hcry: :group: As a mom with a ds 16 I hear & feel you!

just last week I posted about getting rid of some good books when Steve mentioned that I might want to hang on them for the grandkids :eek: That sent me for a :spin:

:kiss: Hugs to your mommy heart!

JulieTX
03-12-2007, 03:57 PM
I can totally relate. My oldest son is about 2 weeks from turning 15! :eek: I can't believe he is that old.

Kathy White
03-12-2007, 03:59 PM
Oh, Leslie I know EXACTLY what you are saying! My oldest son will be 18 :eek: in a couple of months. He will be moving to Raleigh in August. I cannot imagine what it is going to be like without him around the house. I get teary eyed just thinking about it!!!!:hcry:

Katie
03-12-2007, 04:00 PM
Happy Birthday, Christopher! I rejoice with you, Leslie! :group:

Marcia
03-12-2007, 04:01 PM
Right there with you. :yes: :hcry: :group:

Happy Birthday to your godly young man! Enjoy your precious gift!

Becky in CA
03-12-2007, 04:27 PM
Happy Birthday, Christopher!! :hop: Those birthdays certainly do become bittersweet in these years. There's so much more I want to try to instill in them before they leave. Prayer and faith keep me going!

Jen in SC
03-12-2007, 04:32 PM
Just wanted to come back and say that I loved how you refered to Christopher as the one who made you a mom. I'll be stealing that one. ;) What a special image that has been to me all afternoon as I've gone about my afternoon! :yes:

Nakia
03-12-2007, 08:31 PM
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Oh Leslie! That blog entry is one of the most beautiful things I have ever read. I can hardly type for the tears! I know God puts just the right baby with just the right mommy. How blessed you and Christopher are to be together. He sounds like a precious young man. Just the kind I pray that each of my daughters meet and marry one day (But we won't even think about that right now ;) . Thank you so very much for sharing!

Sarah in SC
03-12-2007, 08:37 PM
Happy Birthday to your sweet boy. My son often says to his little sisters (who try to "hog" me a great deal of the time) "She was MY MOM first!"

It must be the hormones, but lately whenever I see him outside playing with his buddies, or shooting hoops or something, I burst into tears and have to walk away from the window. Just the thought that he was just FIVE when we moved here, and now my second child is older than that....I don't know what's wrong with me, but I could just spend the afternoon in the bathroom sobbing.

:group: :group: :group: and lots of love being sent your way.

Jody in PA
03-12-2007, 09:13 PM
I can relate, because I have a 12 year old already! I think how when he leaves home the family won't be completely all in the same house. :hcry: I understand what you are saying! Although, than I think how exciting it will be for him. New adventures, maybe a marriage, than first grandchild. It will be a bittersweet time that is for sure.

Happy Birthday too him!:clap:

Sheri
03-12-2007, 09:16 PM
Awww, it is so bittersweet isn't it?!! Happy day to both of you!

Melissa C
03-12-2007, 09:17 PM
What a beautiful treasure for him to read and know how much you love him and proud of him you are! You had me in tears!
Happy Birthday, Christopher!

Mary FL
03-12-2007, 09:18 PM
Happy Birthday to Christopher!:)

Amanda
03-13-2007, 02:09 AM
Happy Birthday Christopher! :hop: :clap:

Kisha
03-13-2007, 05:49 AM
Leslie, I loved reading the blog entry! :hcry: You are such a great mom!

Happy Birthday Christopher! :clap: